Monday, July 26, 2010

Summertime Jewelry Party!

I had the great pleasure of hosting a jewelry party on Sunday. A great time was had by all (I hope! I haven't heard otherwise). A friend of mine recently because a Lia Sophia consultant in order to make some money for her master's degree and perhaps a vacation or two along the way. So I volunteered to host a party. No arm twisting needed because it involved my three favorite things; friends, jewelry, and dessert!

The decision to make it an intimate afternoon party was easy. I could serve dessert and cocktails. The menu included;

Macarons
Raspberry shortbread squares
Blueberry upside down cake
A fruit bowl
Marionberry mint spritzers
Iced blueberry green tea

I used local sources for most of the party which made it a wonderful way to showcase talent and delicious food. There are many lovely bakeries in Olympia. At first I thought that I would showcase a few of my favorites. But as the local produce began to roll across my table, I realized that it would be shameful not to take advantage of it. The farms down the road from my humble home raise some of the best berries in the state (in my opinion) including the delightful Spooner Berry farms. I stopped here the day before to pick up the marionberries and raspberries.

The marionberries were blended with handfuls of mint from my garden and a scoop of organic white sugar. I strained them to get just the juice. Guests could then pour a desired amount into a glass, add ice, brandy, and spritzer. I left it open for guests to add alcohol or not, knowing that it was a hot afternoon.

For the raspberries, I borrowed the blackberry shortbread recipe from Martha Stewart and substituted raspberries. I also cut the orange zest out because the raspberries were tart enough! These bars were a huge hit with the guests as well as my family. The dough is crumbly enough that I might even toss these on yogurt or ice cream. People couldn't stop eating them.

As if the above two delights weren't enough berry goodness, the blueberries are just coming into season. My local supermarket had a great deal on a few pints so I grabbed them in my pre-party shopping. Hence, the blueberry upside down cake came into being. From Martha Stewart, this cake is slightly different than the norm which automatically drew me to it. It's so unusual to pair brown sugar with blueberries but this was also a hit. It had a musky flavor, deeper than the other tart berries on the menu. Plus the market offered colorful posies of flowers that I put around the dining room. They were small enough to add decoration but not overshadow the jewelry. Check out the SIX dollar bouquet!

But I couldn't stop there. The idea to showcase bakeries still clung with me as my son and I made one of our traditional summer shopping trips down to the Farmer's Market. One of our favorite stands is the San Francisco Street bakery. We usually get the feta and tomato pizza along with other goodies. They were offering a new pastry which they called macarons. I've had the more French version which is small and thin in comparison to these. I took one home to enjoy with my afternoon coffee. One bite of these light airy confections and I was hooked. I had to share them with my friends! In the picture, you will see the lemon almond one. The chocolate ones flew off the plate so I wasn't able to snag a picture of them. And my favorite flavor is the hazelnut one. The buttercream in between the meringues is so light and fluffy that it is decadent to bite into one. I carefully sliced these in half because not only are they rich but huge. I wanted everyone to try a bite of the flavors.

Lastly, in keeping with the summer theme and inspired by the flowers, the tablecloth was a summery blend of roses on a gold background. My grandmother's German china made the best backdrop to the whole affair and I had just enough dessert plates for everyone.

So to the fun part, besides the eating! Lia Sophia is not a well known brand out west so most of the people at my party had not heard of it. I had a small gathering with many different income levels there. Lia Sophia offers a variety of different price points and the jewelry is well made. If you were concerned about budget even more when having a jewelry party, I might look up your local Avon representative. The fun thing about Avon is that it can be a jewelry and makeup party!

Afterward, I started thinking about all the other ways that I might have a girl party without the pressures to buy. Then I thought about the drawers of accessories that I have some of which I never wear or doesn't think suit me. It would be fun to bring all my extra accessories to a party and trade people for theirs!

At the end of the party, I served iced coffee. The best part was after the consultants left, we sat around and munched on the leftovers.

The party was fun and everyone went home pleased with their purchases. In retrospect, I rarely have a party without offering goodies to take home. I went against my typical hostess instincts and thought perhaps the jewelry and pastries would be enough. Bath gels might be over the top. However, I think that I will send them along with the thank you note. Since I see most of these people on a regular basis, a hand delivered thank you is in order and who would refuse some fun bath goodies!

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Again with the Alexis Bittar!


Neiman Marcus can taunt me all they want! I will not break down and buy my latest LUST from jewelry designer Alexis Bittar. But check it out. Gorgeous! It was in my shopping cart at one point but I whispered to myself, "Back away slowly." Can I just say that this beauty would compliment my spring wardrobe excellently?

Also, in the process of writing this post, I discovered Alexis Bittar has a blog. What a great way to feed my jewelry addiction (especially from my FAV designer!). The photography is beautiful! The latest post was a picture of Paris. Lucky Alexis. But one of the most fascinating things about the blog is a look into the mind of a person whose design aesthetic I admire. I especially appreciate the category of currently obsessed. It is a wonderful look at things through the perspective of the artist.

Photo credits - www.alexisbittar.com

Monday, February 8, 2010

Valentine's Day Gifts for Erogenous Zones

If you are looking to spoil your lady for Valentine's Day by tickling, teasing, and tempting her erogenous zones, try some of these ideas! As we historians know, when the concepts of beauty and sex change over time, so does fashion which highlights those areas on the body thought to bring forth carnal desire. For example, Victorians loved shoulders and waists, designing the tight corsets and dropped sleeves to emphasize those desirable regions. (As shown to the right in Pierre-Auguste Renoir's painting of Jeanne Samary) And don't forget the slender ankle, which poked out from their hemlines, naughty and exposed for the young men to swoon from desire!

In Western society today, the neck, lips, breasts, or wrists are often thought to be zones of desire and pleasure. Perhaps they are literally erogenous zones on some people, sensitive and producing the desired effect during foreplay. Or perhaps not. In some cases, erogenous zones are based on socialization. Either way, literal or perceived, if you want to please your sweetheart on Valentine's day, why not put together a gift bag of pleasure? Design this treasure trove with objects that can caress her even when you aren't available. Now, I am going to keep this post PG but I wouldn't keep your gift bag necessarily PC! After all, a successful relationship should be healthy in bed!

For the nape of her neck and plunging down towards her breasts, try this beautiful bird by one of my absolutely favorite jewelry designers, Alexis Bittar. Bittar makes not only this delightful bird but other sexy necklaces as well such as his Organic Link necklace in Venetian red, encrusted with jewels. Alexis Bitter collections are available both at Amazon (my links) and Nordstrom. For even more neck exposure, give her a beautiful, decorative hair clip from Elegant Hair Accessories. My favorite is linked here, a glitzy and yet practical way for me to show off my slender neck to my hubby!


Remember the Victorian passion for small waists? Don't ignore this sexy part of the body, considered the key to womanhood for centuries. Corsets don't just go under clothes any more either. In a variety of colors, materials, and sex appeal, corsets can be worn under and jacket for a trendy and yet sophisticated look. Simply chic corsets and bustier tops can be found in a variety of stores including H&M and Charlotte Russe. If you are looking for something a bit more naughty, Lingerie Diva is a fantastic shopping site but for the adult! While you may not get to the desired Scarlett O'Hara waist measurement from your corset (no one should!) , you will get the lovely contours that a corset applies to both waist and bust!

A secret erogenous zone on a woman is the inside of her wrist. Don't ignore it because it can be a powerful arousal tool for her by blowing on it gently but it can be used to create arousal for you as well. Find her favorite perfume in rollerball form. This can be not only a handy purse item for her (which she will appreciate) but it can be the key to applying a deliciously sexy scent to the tender skin inside her wrist. This will tease you during the day or at dinner as she coyly moves her wrist by you. If you are unsure of which fragrance she would prefer, Sephora offers a refillable rollerball so that she can just insert her own favorite scent!

Don't forget one of the most neglected erogenous zones on a woman, her mind! Don't let that Nook or Kindle that you bought her for Christmas go to waste. Buy her sexy, romantic stories that will be sure to put her in the mood. And if you didn't get her a Kindle or Nook, you can still download the software for both systems onto her laptop (for FREE!) and buy her some reading materials. From the complete illustrated works of Jane Austen to Violet Blue's How to Kiss, you can pay as little as $3 to $10 for books that are sure to put her in a loving mood. Even if she's not a reader, you can tickle her mind with a playlist of her favorite songs on her MP3 player. Think of those heart pumping melodies that instantly set a sexy vibe. From Kings of Leon to the Dear John soundtrack, your rock and roll sweetheart will thank you for bringing a song to her heart.

Good luck! And Happy Valentine's Day!